So we've still got a year left. I really don't have to be thinking about any of this stuff at least until after I graduate in june. but I'm a perfectionist planner. so I am. but i'm also a procrastinator (apparently i'm also gifted at alliteration?). no matter how hard I try to start things early (read: homeword/studying) I have absolutely no motivation nor focus until I'm staring the deadline in the face and eating junk food due to the induced stress. not my best moments. so I keep telling myself that I want to get this wedding planned asap so that the last few months before it happens I can enjoy myself and mentally prepare for the transition into being married.
So even though I have more than enough time to "plan" there's a part of me that wants to withdraw more and more as time goes on. It goes back to the quote from gia canali I posted previously, and have also added to my sidebar on the right as a continual reminder. At this point I have a fiance, dress and a (reception) location (details to come). Sometimes I just want to send an email to our guest list, stock up on some grocery store party platters and wine and hook up the iPod. The end.
March 8, 2010
March 7, 2010
brown paper packages
more farmer's market flowers, this time from postcards and pretties via dandelion and grey .
I definitely plan to use this idea for decorations. Wrap some kraft paper around flowers and call it a day. My kind of deal. But I love that guests could grab some to take with them at the end of day. Whether for their homes if they're local or to brighten up a hotel room for a day or two.
March 6, 2010
winter glamour
I know winter is coming to an end and everyone is super ready for spring. But it's still one of my favorite times of the year and I'm so excited to be getting married next winter!
"Love and warmth" created by Kathryn. Lovely warm neutrals, makes me feel cozy. Though we won't be having crazy snow storms.
This one is titled "grey winter wedding", perfect! Definitely feels like winter.
And finally, "Glamour on Ice" by Cassie. The silver colored mercury glass is on my list of things to hunt down at thrift stores. And the champagne and feathery skirt will need to find a way into my plans. Bachelorette party? honeymoon date night?
March 5, 2010
judge
oh dear. as the blogs struggle to create a place where weddings can be diverse, where there is acceptance even if you have different ideas. Where the engaged couples are allowed to be themselves and do what is right for them. In a world where cliches and trends have taken over the mainstream and even "indie". We exist simply to share our joys and struggles and provide a soundboard to people who understand what we're going through.
And then there's TLC's "Four Weddings". Four weddings, each of the brides attend each other's wedding and SCORE each other. The highest score wins a "dream" honeymoon. Ugh. Way to officially turn weddings into a spectator sport with winners and losers. People essentially paid to critique everything you put into it and creating the ultimate competition. grossssss.
And then there's TLC's "Four Weddings". Four weddings, each of the brides attend each other's wedding and SCORE each other. The highest score wins a "dream" honeymoon. Ugh. Way to officially turn weddings into a spectator sport with winners and losers. People essentially paid to critique everything you put into it and creating the ultimate competition. grossssss.
perfection?
I was at david's bridal this weekend to find bridesmaid dresses for my uncle's wedding. I see why they get mixed reviews. our consultant was extremely rude and a little too high strung. I was very thankful I had a good dress shopping experience as I observed the other brides there on Sunday.
Let's talk about THE dress. So a wedding dress is supposed to be the fanciest, most expensive dress you'll ever wear in your life? eh. that's a lot of pressure. and kind of pessimistic, i guess married life means no hope of ever going places that warrant fancy dresses. i think every woman needs at least one amazing dress in her closet, that makes you look and feel confident. something of quality, that you can pull out when you're invited to a party on the fly or new years eve crept up on you (even if you're not leaving your living room, thankyouverymuch). an investment piece perhaps. that should be a bit more versatile than a wedding dress.
I'd like to stay a bit more on the hopeful side, that I'll get to wear fancy dresses again. And definitely at a time when I can afford it a little more. maybe on a cruise. or if fiance becomes super successful and we get to go the academy awards.
The whole search for the holy grail of dresses is too intense! I spent WAY too much time looking at dresses online. I swear I've seen just about everything, designer, vintage and otherwise. I had to step back and eliminate those images. Although it was good to have a general idea of what I was looking for. I tried on a wide variety of dresses, before going back to exactly what I wanted. I tend to be a bit indecisive, and change my mind a million times. I knew I was taking a risk going dress shopping with my mom so early in the process. But I've made a conscious effort. it's not about finding the PERFECT dress. it's about my own dress, my own decision. I look good in it, and it's comfortable and I like it. And it fit my budget. End of story.
Let's talk about THE dress. So a wedding dress is supposed to be the fanciest, most expensive dress you'll ever wear in your life? eh. that's a lot of pressure. and kind of pessimistic, i guess married life means no hope of ever going places that warrant fancy dresses. i think every woman needs at least one amazing dress in her closet, that makes you look and feel confident. something of quality, that you can pull out when you're invited to a party on the fly or new years eve crept up on you (even if you're not leaving your living room, thankyouverymuch). an investment piece perhaps. that should be a bit more versatile than a wedding dress.
I'd like to stay a bit more on the hopeful side, that I'll get to wear fancy dresses again. And definitely at a time when I can afford it a little more. maybe on a cruise. or if fiance becomes super successful and we get to go the academy awards.
The whole search for the holy grail of dresses is too intense! I spent WAY too much time looking at dresses online. I swear I've seen just about everything, designer, vintage and otherwise. I had to step back and eliminate those images. Although it was good to have a general idea of what I was looking for. I tried on a wide variety of dresses, before going back to exactly what I wanted. I tend to be a bit indecisive, and change my mind a million times. I knew I was taking a risk going dress shopping with my mom so early in the process. But I've made a conscious effort. it's not about finding the PERFECT dress. it's about my own dress, my own decision. I look good in it, and it's comfortable and I like it. And it fit my budget. End of story.
March 4, 2010
family
One of the many things about getting married that I'm so excited about is, effectively doubling my family. Family is so important for both of us. We spend a lot of time with them, get together for all major holidays, and really love to eat. We are so thankful for our future in-laws, we all love each other so much already.
I'm especially excited to become an aunt! Fiance's step sister has 3 precious children, ages 5, 3 and 1. We both love kids, it's so wonderful to see fiance play with the little ones, he's really great with them and they love him. Good to know for the future right? :) The oldest boy is super shy and hates having his picture taken, he'll probably be sitting with his mom for the ceremony. The youngest boy is super sweet, the happiest baby I've ever seen in my life. He loves giving hugs and we hear he's begun speaking, he'll probably be walk down the aisle and totally steal my thunder, but it's totally fine with me! The middle is a girl. She's teeny tiny, she weighs just a little more than her baby brother, but she's got an attitude to make up for it. Probably due to her fiery red hair, she's outspoken but loves to color, have books read to her and be a ballerina.
I'm excited for a little flowergirl. Can you believe that there are flowergirl dresses out there that cost over $200? No way. Not only will she never wear it again but she'll also outgrow it in a couple months. I was thinking more like a sweater dress from target for $20. Here some cute little ones:
I'm especially excited to become an aunt! Fiance's step sister has 3 precious children, ages 5, 3 and 1. We both love kids, it's so wonderful to see fiance play with the little ones, he's really great with them and they love him. Good to know for the future right? :) The oldest boy is super shy and hates having his picture taken, he'll probably be sitting with his mom for the ceremony. The youngest boy is super sweet, the happiest baby I've ever seen in my life. He loves giving hugs and we hear he's begun speaking, he'll probably be walk down the aisle and totally steal my thunder, but it's totally fine with me! The middle is a girl. She's teeny tiny, she weighs just a little more than her baby brother, but she's got an attitude to make up for it. Probably due to her fiery red hair, she's outspoken but loves to color, have books read to her and be a ballerina.
I'm excited for a little flowergirl. Can you believe that there are flowergirl dresses out there that cost over $200? No way. Not only will she never wear it again but she'll also outgrow it in a couple months. I was thinking more like a sweater dress from target for $20. Here some cute little ones:
(via mayra.ro)
(via oncewed)
the redhead on the left is my favorite. with red lips and a little smirk, she looks like the life of the party.
March 3, 2010
soft
school's been getting to me. finals are in a couple weeks and i am completely burnt out at the moment. but i took a little break to flip through the new march anthropologie catalog, and felt like someone was peeking at my inspirations!
soft muted neutrals, natural materials and those head pieces are to die for. Maybe I can convince my four year old niece-to-be to wear crazy flowers in her hair. Also loving the messy updos. hair is one of my more indecisive subjects. more on that later.
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